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Never too many thank you’s

For the next 4 days, we’ll be taking a little detour from the traditional marketing posts you’ve come to know and love on the Marcie Brock blog as I lead by example and follow my own writing prompts for the Author Blog Challenge.

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Day 25 writing prompt:

Time for some shout-outs. This may mimic your acknowledgement page, but whom would you like to publicly thank for their help in creating your book or completing it to the point where it is presently?

As many books as I’ve read in my life, I’ve never really been one to read the acknowledgments. Perhaps it’s because they all sound the same: To my husband/wife/SO for their support. To the kids for giving me time to write. To my agent/attorney/publicist for believing in me. To  my editor for making my words mine, but better. Blah-blah-blah. It’s not that it’s unimportant to thank people – I could write PAGES on the importance of gratitude and the role it’s played in my life. I just don’t have a whole lot of interest in an author I don’t know thanking a whole raft of other people I don’t know.

I’m much more interested in watching the credits of a film than I am in reading the acknowledgments in a book – if only because I’m working on a screenplay and enjoy seeing how many people it takes to put a movie together. It’s also interesting to start to notice the same names popping up in secondary (to most people’s way of thinking) areas, like casting.

When I sat down to write out my own list of thank-you’s for my book, I realized that there weren’t just one or two folks to thank. I did, of course, start with my mom and dad. But then there were my sisters (one of whom I cherish, and one of whom I haven’t seen since my mom’s funeral last August); my niece; Sr. Laurian, my sixth-grade English teacher; Fr. Renna, my senior HS English teacher; Nancy Mairs, my favorite college professor; and Scott White, my personal trainer, who encouraged me every day I worked with him. And as I thought of each of those, I thought of 10 more people. Eventually, it came down to a decision to either list them all or list none of them. I opted for list them all.

Here’s the Thank You page from my book, recreated as-is, here. Of course, I’ve probably met more people in the last 6 or 7 years than in the previous 38 all put together, and not everyone from the last couple of years has necessarily made it onto this version yet. If I met you and you impacted my life, please know you belong on this list.

THANK YOU!

This book did not come into being in a vacuum. Rather, it is an accumulation of all the steps of my life, each of those steps eventually leading me to where I am today. The following list mentions those most significant to me along my journey. I have lost touch with many of the people named here – others have departed this world. But all affected my life, if even in some small way – and because of their influence, I have become the person I am today. To each of these and all who have touched my life in any way, I say thank you.

Mom & Dad • Ann Rendon • Corina Orsini • Samantha Rose Wood • Dolores Diaz • Marta Glueck • Michael Glueck • Rita Lettner • Arthur Orsini • Fr. Frank Orsini • Carmen Perez • Silveria RendonHortencia Reyes • Loretta Roldan • Joe Torres • Jimmy • James • Chip • Mrs. Gore • Kenny • Loretta, Steve, Bill, Mike, Tim, & Dave • Mr. & Mrs. DavisNick, Edith, & Jimmy Ruccolo • Steve Bowers • Tony Blanco • Janine, Mary, & Dan Piatkowski • Jimmy Adams • Chris Bishop • Marvin Brooks • Stephen Davis • Brian Hiers • Susan Finnerty • Kathy Freeman • Leslie Gugliamo • Kelly Jordan • James Lewis • Michelle Mangosing • Manuel Romero • Jerry Moudy • Paula Myscow • Carol Pachek • Chene Valdez • Darrell Stettmeier • Jeff Walker • Cindy Brown • Eddie Perez • Matt Korp • Chris Winters • Brian DeLong • Brian HolderAndrea Piña • Cindy Purigraski • Stephanie Sanchez • Sr. Laurian • Fr. Murray Phalen • Sr. Cecily • Sr. Augusta • Mrs. Hillman • Miss King • Roberta Kase • Therese Martin Portman • Christine Mollitch • Mrs. Vales • Dr. Tan • Ron, the orthodics guy • Mrs. Galia • Pat O’Friel • Mrs. Partridge • Linda Pilon • Fr. Anton Renna • Emily Wolf • Lisa Pflaum Regalado •NHS racquetball crew: Mike, Herman, Phil, Gilbert, WeeGan, etc. • Jane Oh Kim • James Kim • Troy Newman • Toby Newman • Anthony Gimino • Marie, Rich, & Rich Jr. Gimino • David Baker • Jon Lazar • Diana • Mark Macumber • Keith Manning • Mary Greene • Rich Wilner • Maria Bongiovi • Kathy Crook • Gregg Derr • Matt Dudek • Beth Frketich • Mary Fitzpatrick • Margot Fuentes • Christine Glass • Colleen Koors • Doria Kryzwicki • John Cooper • Lisa Munninger • Anne Marie Kuban • Patty McDermott • Eddie Meehan • Matt Mnichowicz • Kay Philippakis • Dave L. • Debbie Riebe • Stacey Seaman • Chris Stevens • Cory Sullivan • Tom • Leslie • Vickie Laramie • Pat • Marylou Bessette • Jerry Smith • Chris Hogan • Jayne Tucker O’Sullivan • Tom O’Sullivan • Shirley, Tim, & Mike Tucker • Dawn • Bobbie Jo Buel • Steve & Edith Auslander • Elaine Raines • Mike Downs • Gawain Douglas • Fred Araiza • Nancy James Baetz • Keith Bagwell • Joyce Bertschy • Erin & Zach • Al Bravo • Patty Brest • Marlene Dekker • Judi Erickson • Dave & Johanna Eubank • David Koen • Steffennie Fedunak • Tom Frankman • Tom & Christia Gibbons • Linda Gutierrez • Collette Bancroft • Donine Henshaw • Susan Knight • Rick Gary • Javier Morales • Scott Peterson • Joe Salkowski • Kristin Cook • Mari Schaefer • Ron Somers • Angela Soto • Sid & Elena • Miles Standish • Mike Tucker • Betty Johnson Wittenberg • Maureen • Lynn Zacek Kosmata • Johnny Kosmata • Brian Carlson • Mary Biel Haney • David Haney • Ed Quigley • Payton Bissell • Eric Wakatani • Richard Karsk • Mari Olsen • Tamzen Smith • John Whetzel • Andi, Chris, & Rick • Jim & Matt • Nancy Mairs • Homer Petty • Richard Shelton • Fr. Robert Burns • UA Newman Center folks • Fr. Bede • Fr. Nathan • Fr. David • Sr. Dominic • Joan Canty • Bernardo Quinteros • Anthony Lewis • Dale & Diane Lewis • Wendee Lewis Dunlap • Mike Balk • David Wood • Sean, the car rental guy • Ken Bolden • Barbara Vaccaro • George Rossi • Manja Agnese • Susan Berdel • Kevin Boyle • Debbie • Carolyn Weiss Clayton • Fran Bresnan • Anne Chan • Joe Buscemi • Maryanne Glassen • Doreen Ciccone • Ray Jacobs • Tamara Jones • Amy Lehman • Barbara Muller • Jessica • Karen Oak • LuAnn Osterhoudt • Elizabeth Painter • Peggy Perry • Lori Rose • Alison Richards • Luisa Rossillo • Jen Seibert • Christine Sweeney • Juliet Campbell • Chris Fuller • Victoria Worthington • Joanie • Wayne • Sam by the ferry dock • Tom Ferriter • Pete Kelegian • Debbie Carver • Nancy Clark • Peggy Scriva • David Oakes • Miguel Trelles • Patty Jordan • Carlo • Stephanie Regalia • Bev Simonelli • Christine • John • Nadine • Silvio • Stephanie • Everyone from the CWT Washington D.C. office • Kathy, Bruce, & Jill Eric • Mary Weidenborner • Anna Sank • All the Spence-Chapin folks • Every adoptive parent or prospective adoptive parent I ever spoke with • Judy Link • Judi Greene • Sandy Ripberger • Kathy Legg • All the Spence birthmoms • Dr. George McQuilkin • Terry • Nursing staff at St. Mary Hospital in Hoboken • Kirk Rule • Jayson Berkshire • Nick Firoozye • Nathan Hosner • Janet Eng • LauraAnne Pafundi • Mickie Thomas • Jim Dykema • WFC cleaning ladies • Patricia Anderson • Peggy Arciero • Kathy Paulik • Karin Anderson • Howard Ponzer • Lynn Franklin • Arianne Anthony • Anne Harvey • Lisa Venezia • Maryl Tolge Darko • Fr. Albert Felice-Pace • Candace Rondeaux • Barry Stein • Tim • Carl • Leo Sanchez • Cheryl • Floyd • Scott • Krista Knight • Tom Poindexter • James Macumber • Brian Carey • Julian Altbush • Fr. Vic Kennedy • the Blanchards • Lady at the hotel in Colorado Springs who asked me about reading a map • Old lady who always rode the bus and PATH train between JC and the WTC • Homeless man in JC who ran when I approached him • Ed, my mechanic • Claire Behun • Evie & Reilly Carpenter • Emilio Ruiz • Sam & Will Falconer • Nevada Gellerman • Little Annette Ruiz • Alex Stuart • Marshall & Tayler Tucker • Lucas Turner • Mariah Yaeger • Anna, Courtney, Lindsay, & Melissa • Alan Jones • Lori Hart • Karen Estrada • Rick Reeker • Satwant Singh Khalsa • Jaswant Khalsa • Karen Paxton • Susan Richie • Susan McGinn • Jeff Finley • Mary Castro • Nick DiCarlo • Leo Beus • Joanne Brooks • Hopi Castaneda • Tammy Cole • Laurie Craig • Patty Crawford • Tina Daniels • Stephanie DeBuhr • Sherry Delgado • Paul Gilbert • Jim Harrison • Kim Jackowski • Eric Kamps • Christine Jones • Tim Kasparek • Kevin Kushner • Carol Moore • Jen Parkinson • Joe Pierce • Beth Pleskovitch • Dave Rodgers • Quint Seamons • Karen Stoll • Karen Sullivan • Nancy Swanner • Christine Taradash • Donna Walla • Gordon Wasson • Anne Way • Brit Worthen • the Mr. Janitor folks • Sara at TOC • All the kids I taught as a sub • Brad Benson • Aimee Brown • Brian Becker • Marc Scremin • Keith, Mary, & Marylou • Eric Gagnon • John Taylor • Luke & Holly Taylor • Bruce • Bruno • Jon • Matthew • Larry • All the guys from my Personal Ad-Ventures • Oh Family • Anderson Family • Pachek Family • Healy Family • Kathy Spade • Cami Brown • • Julia Baldazan • Lori Carter • Barbara Jones • Gretchen Goldstein • Gina Abate • Heather Homuth • Doris & Lew • Pastor Eric • Patricia Bolivar • Steve Avery • Mary Ann • George Rodriguez • Georgie, Nick, Adrian • Ruth Strauss • David Brown • Kerrell & Matt Farmelant • Landis • Jason Sanchez • Tim Gartland • Ken Conditt • Melissa Ward • Kevin • D-Backs ticket office/others: Adrian, Ann, Barbara, Chris, Christina, Christy, Craig, Cree, Darren, David, Devan, Finn, Helen, Jeanette, Joan, Joslyn, Karla, Kelly, Kendi, Kenny, Kirk, Luis, Manny, Marsha, Mary, Monique, Nancy, Natalie, Neely, Nita, Paula, Rob, Roger, Rowena, Ryan, Sarah B., Sarah P., Scott, Stacey, Susan, Syd, Tiffanie, the security guys, etc. • Annette Alvarez • Debra Davenport • Linda Herold • Lisa Platt • Heather Hudak • Vickie Mullins • Elizabeth Gannon • Yuri Haglund • Robin & Tony Muscia • Sally Baker • Vickie Champion • Justin • Baron Benham • Candace Robles • St. Theresa 6 p.m. Choir • Fr. Chuck Keiffer • Petra Boham • Ira Hayden • Connie & Jerry Kadansky • Steve Dawson • Patty & Paul • Ellen & Dan Gardner • Andrew Rulon • Everyone at Arizona Pathways: Donnie, Dan, Calli, Brooks, Northern, Kenny, Khrista, Jim, Eddie, Cadillac, Mike Y., Mike A., Adam, Patrick, David, James • Sherrie Fischer • Dave Lastinger • Deborah Wellborn • Chris Kyselka • Michelle Gillenwater • Sandy Rogers • Maruice Guinouard • Joanne Tedesco • Holly Lorant Dobbs & Jimmy Dobbs • Donna Tucker • Cecilia Cusimano • Lucinda Lintz • Sue Shipman • Kas Winters • Peggy Rostron • Dyane Welt • Lorraine Festa • Gary Gilbertson • Jessica Gunawan • Janet Magno • Matt Lowry • Jen Pfister • Paula Dawson • Mark Maxon • Mary Edmonds • Jessie • Linda Crone • Gina Keating • Allison Parker • Sandy Grimalauskso • Victor Lopez • Clorrie Smith • Thaedwood Smith • Amy, Lori, Dave, John, Ron & Mary • Steve • AJ • Jackie Hill • Candace Burton • Richard Dance • Suzanne Koivun • Raleigh Pinskey • Scott White • Ryan Johnson • William Nelson • Tara Godfrey • Kathleen Hudson • Matt Moran • Jim Norman • Buck O’Neil • Mike Salomon • Jacie Carter • Breah Parker • Lorraine DeLeon • Chris LaMont • Dave Cornelius • Norma Earl • Janet Maxwell • Toni Verso • Betsy Ingram • Sam Sites • Gilat Ben-Dor • Helen Kazemi • Lynn Ehmann • Janet Shanney • Nicole Bolde • Candace Lappe • Sherree Mongrain • Linda Leibl • Meryl Runion • Kasten Spethmann • Kim Hollenback • Lori Grobe • Barbara Sparrgrove • Sue Flaig • Ruth Breen • Sue C. • Ann Williamson • Rebecca Joy • Lou Hunt • Pam Hillyer • Irene Conlan • Ken Lettner • Emil Orsini • All the staff at the Phoenix Adult Day Care Center • All the angels from Hospice of the Valley • Fr. Ernest Larkin • Todd Smith • Norma Strange • Selena Pepe • Stephanie Shaw • Shari Gacksatter • Ted Herbig • Steve Vinson • Teel McClanahan • Ramsey Carpenter • Dr. Ed • Wendy Kenney • Lana Leslie • Harold Wong • Therese Skelly • Mitzi Lynton • Ron Peer • Jody Owen • Lindy Lutz Cash • Barbara Bengtsson • Pam Gaber & Gabriel • Mara DeFilippis • Lynn Paige • Jim Gordon • Karen Levine • Dan Levine • Anna Weber • Arleen Holtz • Michele Pariza Wacek • Cindy Wilson • Donna Bochow • Gina Van Luven • Sherry Fragosa • Dave Barnhart • Kim & Craig Jolly • Rick Sanchez • Phil Singleton • Chip Lambert • Eileen Proctor • Eileen Roth • Patricia Drain • Debbie Allen • Johnny G • David Hepburn • Lynn Rose • Bill Gluth • Jeremy Tuber • Doug Hibbard • Bill Strain • Jack Alspaugh • George Fleming • Steve & Carol Weber • Joel Block • Ken & Judy Foster • Eric Lofholm • Arvee Robinson • Melanie Benson Strick • Ray DuGray & Maria Ngo • Brendan Burchard • Matt Mannino • Adam Urbanski • Peter Montoya • Adora Spencer • Greg S. Reid • Tom Antion • Dave Lakhani • James Ray • Norma Hollis • Beth Schneider • Declan Dunn • Donna Fox • John DiMartini • James Malinchak • Stephanie Frank • Jeanette Cates • Kendall Summerhawk • Linda Hollander • Noah St. John • Lynn Pierce • Audrey Hagen • Tom Justin • Linne Bourget • Jack Lindsley • Kent Rini • Vincent Kellsey • Howard Teibel • Jay Hare • Allan Sabo • Tina Kennedy • Ryan Chester • Annie Loyd • Becky Breitweiser • Jodi Powers • Michelle Corr • Rose Winters • Bill Soroka • Terri Mansfield • Elleyne Kase • Tammy Holmes • Mollie Kidari • Krylyn Peters • Bill Greaves • Rob Nye • Patricia Brooks • Kebba Buckley Button • Ron Button • James Casey • Jeannette Chaplin • Jen Blackert • Jenn Kaye • Kathleen Hudson • Anna “Banana” Kruchten • Gary Houghtaling • Karen Watts Edwards & Bill Edwards • Helen Goldman • Kay Fulkerson • Jason Wong• Pam Donison • Janice Plado Dalager • Ben Cruz • Jennifer Furrier • Melissa Rose • Jenny Dickason • Steve & Resa Ferreira • Lisa Albinger • Vicki Christensen • Mike Hayashi • Kelly Damron • Laura Bank Witte • Karen Kibler • Leon Gildin • Daniel & Ryan • Barbara Chavarria • Beth Kozan • Carol Hogan • Tom Otstot • Sunil Ahuja • Brad Taft • Dana Ball • Suzanne Muusers • Anne Morris • Ann Terhark • Charlie Pascu• Tom Mozilo • Emily • Joey Sampaga • Linda Hall • John & Rebecca • Richard Garrard • Tom C • Dane Treat • Michael Niall • Michael & Suzie Goldstein • Brandon Oliver • Mark Cohen • Diane Busey-Bird• Teresa Cole • Steve von Ehrenkrook • Marc Hampson • Debbie Meyers • David Bell • Christine Pekrul • Debbie Black • Helen Pugh • Jeff Haebig • Linda Sloan • Tammy Smith • Brian Renner • Mark Brezinsky • Tom Buckhardt • Michele Elizabeth • Lara • Ginger • Brian • Samuel N. Asare • Ken & Laura Speer • Judy & Earl Corkett • Penni Honey • Gary Webb • Shivaun Sullivan • Gina Canardo • Charlie Jones • Shawn Armenta • Titus • Tommie Jones • John Rice • Paul Force • Guy Batty • Jane Dominguez • Rick • Karen Langston • Kevin Mogavero • Ashley Szczesiak • Brian • Peter • Sheri Nordstrom Scott & Chuck Scott • Tina Sacchi • Glenn Mark • Frannie Barrientos • Ginna Hoff • Heather Barr • Betina Frisone • Barbara Powers • LynnRae Ries • Matt Bustos • Teddiye Walton • Tunde Negron • John & Gayle Kelemen • Mary Kelemen • Gayle, Ed, & Charlotte Snible • John Kelemen, the love of my life • Me •

One very special shout-out goes to Judy Corkett, my friend who embraced my book from the first moment she heard about it, helped me get its launch off the ground, and encouraged my earliest marketing efforts. She was a godsend and I appreciate every moment she nudged me in a forward direction.

While I don’t think it needs to be done in the front matter of your book, this seems to me to be a worthy exercise for almost anyone to undertake – if not to make a literal list, but to simply realize that every person we meet, however fleeting, has a story and impacts our story. Thanks to all of those who’ve helped me on my way.

In gratitude!

Laura

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